For some of you the reason you’re alone and avoided is because you leave a bad taste
For some of you the reason you’re alone and avoided is because you leave a bad taste in people and you’ve never summoned enough courage to face that side of you. You’re uptight and stiff and you just have never learnt how to relax and converse.
You’re picky and sensitive and you make people uneasy when talking to you. How would you feel talking to a person who, on the first day chatting, has already corrected you several times about petty issues like pronunciation or has strongly disapproved of something you said about politics, or complained bitterly about the country’s leadership? People keep running to you but as soon as they talk to you they run right back. Your personality has a rough texture and a bad feel.
You’ve neglected the art of being easy and fun to talk to, and although you may have very high achievements and be a very resourceful person elsewhere in life, in this one aspect you’re an abysmal failure. Solution? Stop reading motivational stuff because you don’t need acceleration now. What you need is correction so start reading self awareness materials.
When your car malfunctions on the highway do you try to speed or to slow down? You actually pull to the side and attend to the issue. You too, get off the highway and attend to that squeaky sound in your personality.
Face the mirror and slay your ghosts or they will haunt you for life.
By Benjamin Zulu 
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