7 Ways Couples Take Their Spouses For Granted In Marriage
When you see a beautiful couple who are in love, committed, and transparent, then suddenly, things turn around, and two jolly friends are now sworn enemies.
What could be responsible for this sudden negative turnaround. Many will attribute this to the works of the devil and enemies of their marriage.
While we can not rule out demonic attacks, couples too have their own share in the state of their marriage.
Let me quickly drop 7 ways couples take one another for granted in marriage.
When efforts and contributions to the progress of the marriage/family are not recognised and appreciated.
When there is an accumulation of unresolved issues while one partner is willing to seek help, and the other appears unconcerned.
One of the partners sees the other as the only one who is having a problem, and he/she isn’t at fault in their issues in any way. When one of the couples is guilty, the other can not be guiltless.
When kind gestures, shows of love and good deeds are not reciprocated. This attitude can murder love and kindness.
No matter what happens in marriage or to the children. It is one of the partners that gets the blame even when it has nothing to do with him/her. The blame must land on her/his head.
When you trivialize what is hurting your partner and he/she keeps getting the pain repeatedly without you being accountable for your mistakes and errors. You are taking your spouse for granted.
When you decide to be irresponsible and not responsive to the family needs and responsibilities. Only one of the parties is carrying the burden, and you don’t seem to see anything wrong in your attitude.
You see, if this trend continues, your spouse will soon be pushed to the wall, and you will destroy that beautiful heart and relationship.
Be humble and wise to the needful by seeking appropriate help.
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