How will I stop loving someone who doesn’t love me- Benjamin Zulu
How will I stop loving someone who doesn’t love me, but he drives me crazy on bed? I am really fighting that thing.’
This is a sex addiction, and to break it will be a fight just like any other addiction.
This is one reason you need to keep your cookie jar sealed until marriage. You can get stuck onto beds you don’t belong to. The wrong people have a tendency to give you the right feeling because that’s what they’re in your life for. Some are even sex artists and pleasure tourists of sorts. They live for sensual gratification. And so they take you to places you’ve never been to, and you’ll live to crave those feelings even when you’re married.
Yes, illicit sex is dangerous because it sets impossible precedent.
In addition, stolen bread always tastes sweeter because of the forbidden thrill. Your own chemical stimulation will make the experience more heightened. These chemicals are unsustainable, and therefore, your partner will never get you to feel that way. So you end up becoming so mentally contaminated that you can’t find fulfilment at home.
In short, stop wandering or else you’ll forget home. Even if you had started veering off, you can take a u-turn and cleanse your mind as much as you can by not dwelling on the fantasies.
Pure pleasure requires a pure mind. The admonishment to keep marital bed pure was not a restraint to confine us but a loving guidance to keep us safe and sensitive to true pleasure.
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