A good Man Should be Real- Benjamin Zulu
The first quality of a good man is that he should be REAL. Not rich or even strikingly handsome. Wealth is relative and any little lonely he has by that point he should be humble and low key with it. If he tries to flaunt in any way, that’s a huge red flag.
About looks, most ‘slay kings’ are usless. They’re very weak and they totally lack in morals. They suffer the same syndrome majority of strikingly beautiful ladies suffer: over depending on their physical charms and neglecting to build real character and real muscle for life.
A good man is humble enough to be true about where he is in life, both in words and in deeds. He shouldn’t show up with borrowed things to impress you, and the moment you discover that you should advice yourself against ever meeting him again. If during conversations he lies about his job or area of residence or general lifestyle, that’s childish and a deal breaker. Nobody lies about what they’re working towards and so if he fakes having a car most likely he’ll never buy one. If an honest person shows up in a hired car he won’t pretend like he owns it.
Because he plans on buying one some day he has no shame in admitting that. If he insists on a restaurant far above his means, that’s a fool. Gentlemen know you can get decent meeting places at any budget. And they want to show you the landscape of their life so you can see your job description and brace for it.
Taking you to a friend’s house is anathema, an accursed thing. Whatever he lives in, he should take you there. And remember we’re talking about day visit, not sleep overs of cheap and unprincipled women.
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