Is Having a Sponsor Bad- Benjamin Zulu
‘I’ve had a sponsor who furnished my house last year. We stayed for only 6 months then we broke up due to his wife knowing but that didn’t end our relationship that much coz he was still coming to see me. So after that..we met and i got pregnant, after i told him he said that he will take care of me until i deliver the baby and he did.
My problem is that I have his child but when he doesnt have money he doesnt talk…but when he gets it he resurfaces. What do I do?’
The arrangement is that you’re selling your body for a furnished house and money. Well, I’m not a consultant in the business of sponsors or prostitution but I think you shouldn’t complain when the customer has no money. Neither should you expect to be treated like a lover because you’re just a seller. Stop expecting attention and love. He comes with cash to get the cookie. Understand your position.
You’re also behaving very heartless and soon you’ll reap what you’re sowing if you don’t turn back right away. You say that the wife found out and you don’t care what agony you put her and her family through.
You say that you got a child and you don’t care the murky situation you brought that child into where they cannot access their father. Or that they’ll grow being treated like a secret, damaging their self esteem.
You’ve already reaped the first fruit of a child who you’ll have to raise on your own. Then you’ll realise that the cost of raising a child is 1000 times more than all the money he gave you plus the house. It was a bad deal in all terms.
Soon other consequences will follow. Because he’s a cheat he’ll bring you diseases and then you’ll need to feed yourself and your child when you’re sick. And that’s how depression and despondency come.
You can never find peace living in sin. You can never find happiness when you’re causing another person agony.
There’s no peace for the wicked. (Isaiah 48:22)
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