is it bad to own a sex toy- Benjamin Zulu
‘Hi is it bad to own a sex toy? Ny fiance is angry because he found out I have one to an extent he broke up with me.’
Any sober man would have done the same. You have your source of gratification so why should he be an extra in your life? You think it’s fun to have a partner who masturbates and self stimulates when you’re in their life? It’s disgusting. It makes them feel dirty and they lose all respect for you.
In sum, I think this generation has watched too much porn and they confuse it with real life. Understand: pyrography is a staged act driven by money and lust and they don’t care about values or feelings or conscience. Sex between a couple, on the other hand, is a mutually satisfying engagement with feelings and perception playing a key role. The person must perceive you as respectable and worthy of giving themselves to.
Porn is also full of perversion and people using unnatural ways to seek sexual pleasure. You cannot import such things to real life without dire consequences. You may say to yourself that it’s only a safe ‘supplement’ to your sex life and it’s better than cheating but your actions will still be offensive and repulsive to your partner. Everyone wants to be enough for their partner and so solve any issues between the two of them.
(©️ Benjamin Zulu Ke)
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