My Husband Sired a Child Outside Wedlock What Should I Do-over Benjamin Zulu
‘My husband has just sired a baby out of wedlock and I’m just devastated. My baby is 8 months while the other is 7 months. This is my third child. The worst part is he is talking so bad to me telling me that lady is here to stay, since I had requested that he breaks up with the lady and take care of his baby. Advice papa.’
Even without the issue of the cheating and the baby, that level disrespect and attitude towards you is enough to see you out of his life forever.
But most likely you can’t because, like most ignorant women, you’re money-less and jobless and helpless. That’s why he’s daring you to do what you want because he knows you can do nothing. Money is a shield. You cannot defend yourself when you cannot feed yourself.
So you must start with a financial plan. You can leave the more grown kids with him and go establish yourself somewhere with a hustle.
Listen to me women: if you neglect your personal development and you mindlessly rush into marriage and childbearing you’re walking into a slaughterhouse. The same way your clothing covers you and keeps you from shame and cold, so does your own money. Nobody can dare you to do what they know you will do easily. Be vigilant and far seeing.
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