Signs of a High Value Woman-Benjamin Zulu
She never jumps onto bed before walking down the aisle.
Female instinct is, by nature cautious. This is because upon marriage, she migrates to a different society and to be under a man. This ‘absorption’ is so high risk that if she gets it wrong, she will be totally ruined. Also, once she gets her offspring, she’s deeply attached to them, not to mention how exposed to danger and death she is during the childbearing process. In view of these facts, she will be extremely careful with how she chooses the man to risk her life with.
The worst agony in the female’s life comes from a bungled process of mate selection. This knowledge is etched inside the feminine psyche through handed-down experience and observation. Every woman knows another woman who went through hell or died from a bad marriage. Many times, it’s her relative, if not her own mother.
Because of this, an awakened woman would rather err on the side of caution by never marrying if she can not find a man she can trust than risk her life by marrying just anyhow.
In this respect, any time a woman jumps onto bed with you just because there are these feelings between you and you’ve dished a few promises, that’s a high-risk woman. Either she’s a dangerous hunter trying to trap you with her body and a baby, or she’s dangerously naive. Any other man can get her to do that with him when you’re away from home because of work, and she’s somewhat lonely. Remember, she’s unenlightened and so unable to resist a cunning man, just like yourself. What’s good for the goose is good for the gunder, right? What goes here goes there.
2. Never dresses brazenly.
Overly sexual dressing is not feminine but aggressive and predatory. It’s meant to conquer you sexually. It’s a control tool. Any woman who weaponizes her body is superficial and materialistic and is capable of anything.
Where twisted men use the wallet to get women, twisted women use the other wallet to lure men, too.
By dressing brazenly, we mean excessively provocative style, taking the context into account. A high value woman will dress cute as well, but there will be moderation and restraint nixed in.
3. Respects ordinary men.
Any time a woman’s opinion about a man is based on his economic status, run from her. If she has a way she talks to waiters and gatemen and another way for talking to monied men, you’re in the wrong company. One day, you will receive that other treatment, too.
4. Never gets drunk in public.
Again, anything that takes away her safety is avoided by a high value woman, for the simple reason that she’s a hunted species. She carries something that sex pests and predators are hunting for, and so she can never risk losing her wakefulness even for one moment. Once more, every woman can tell you of another woman whose life was turned upside down by rape. To get drunk in view of male predators, therefore, sends chills down her spine. If she will take anything alcoholic in public, it will be in great moderation. She would rather drink in the safety of her home or at her friend’s.
5. Is not at war with male fraternity.
She gets along with both male and female friends. If she has female friends, it means she has nothing to hide. Women read each other better and quickly. You should avoid women who say that females are petty and impossible. Isn’t she female herself? Can’t she find other females of her kind? Or is she the only one of the healthy type in the world? How grandiose and narcissistic can that be?
The point here is to avoid women who are at war with men, who possess blanket generalisations like all men are dishonest, cheaters, stingy, and so on. It just means she’s bitter and unhealed.
6. She’s charming and secure.
An insecure seductress will wiggle her charms to get you into her kitchen and shave your covenants. You can know it because she has no restraint, and her sexual pull is extremely powerful.
A high value woman, however, is safe. She’s sexually appealing but also of high honour. You don’t feel cornered or trapped by her. She’s ready to move on in case things don’t work out, even if you already blundered together and got a child. She is a resource, and she’s not desperate to be accepted. She knows someone will eventually see her worth.
In short, if you’re a conscious king you need a conscious queen. You need woman of worth. To find her you need to know things that identify her.
These are but a few to help you on your way.