Some people will hold a grudge against you for things they did to you
Some people will hold a grudge against you for things they did to you. When they know they hurt you, they go silent on you. Or they start bringing up your past mistakes just to put you on the defensive and avoid being on the spot themselves.
They’re too egotistical to humble themselves and apologise, so they try to gaslight you into taking responsibility for their own actions. Their pride makes them allergic to empathy and insensitive to your pain.
They will say things like ‘You’re not perfect either. You made me do that. You provoked me.’
Inability to swallow one’s pride and heal the pains they cause makes the person impossible to live with, and you should stop trying the impossible.
(©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)
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