What you Should do of Yu out Meet a Person Who Already Knows More About You-Bwnjamim Zulu
If you meet or talk with someone for the first time and they already seem to know so much about you – things you never told them of course – don’t get flattered. That’s not a sign of genuine interest or someone who has ‘been desiring you for a long time.’ It’s a sign that they have spied on and investigated you and qualified you as the perfect prey. That’s a predator and they’re using the appearance of already knowing you to manipulate their way into your life.
It’s one of the most common techniques used by narcissists to make the victim think they’ve found their ‘soulmate.’ They also study you in order to mirror your values and say what you want to hear. If you’re spiritual they behave spiritual and even quote scriptures. But if you’re perceptive you still sense a disconnect.
Run away. A healthy person will also have done a background check on you but they will never bring up what they found. They will let you present yourself as you wish. Then they will make their own judgement as to whether your story adds up. Healthy and honest people don’t just throw up information about you to corner you. They’re friendly and easy and they don’t make you feel rushed.
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