Do Not Mistake Being Treated With Love
Do not mistake someone who merely treats you right for someone who is in love with you. Some of you have been the giver for so long that you don’t know how being given the right kind of attention feels.
According to Benjamin Zulu the moment someone comes around and treats you right you get overwhelmed and you fall in love. But the person didn’t have love in mind they were just being nice to a nice person, and also because that’s who they are. Sometimes you need to catch yourself and tuck in your feelings when you realise you’re losing your cool.
And don’t believe these proponents of self expression who tell you to express everything you feel. There’s a time to say what you feel and there’s a time to control what you feel.
If you don’t learn that you’ll ruin good connections and embarrass yourself by bringing romance where people just wanted friendship.
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