Some people will honor and treasure you only until they marry you- Benjamin Zulu
After you become a couple they begin to assume you. They think the marriage has locked you to them and there’s nowhere you can go. Whereas they used to look forward to seeing you and your conversations were regular and deep, now they shut you out of their life. They avoid being home and when they’re home they keep themselves busy on phone or watching the TV.
They pretend that nothing has changed or they use their job as a cover. You can tell that you’re no longer important to them and you’re more of a social prop to give them the status of being married. To them you’re a thing. They disregard your needs and your feelings.
Solution? Get angry. Very angry at how they conned you into their life only to lock you in a cage called marriage. Next, surprise them. They’re playing their cards using society to guilt trip you into staying. They know if you tell friends and family they won’t get it and they’ll tell you to bear with the situation. That ‘all marriages have issues.’ But you’re not that dumb not to tell a difference between genuine differences of opinions and someone taking you for granted. You know this is conscious behaviour on your partner’s part and you want nothing to do with it.
You got married for companionship and for friendship throughout life, not these sick traps and mind games.
They think you’re too afraid to disappoint people after the wedding you did or the ceremonies you did. They hope you’re a coward. Solution? Shock them. Sever the cord at once and live your life happily. If anyone asks you tell them you’d rather be happy alone than slowly dying in an empty shell called marriage.
More importantly, these people who act moody and distant in the house are usually the life of the party out there. They’re happy out there and dry in the house. Who do they take you for? Their social backdrop? Or a mat to walk on? Refuse!
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