Men who are quick to call women gold diggers have no gold to be dug themselves.
You will notice that the men who are quick to call women gold diggers have no gold to be dug themselves. They use this guilt tripping to get away with stinginess or to get something from her.
I once saw this line inscribed on the side of a city commuter: ‘Hauna kuku, kesi ya mwewe waitafuta nini?’ Or ‘You have no chicken, why business do you have at the eagle’s court case?’
There are people who are bitter with their lives and they project their emptiness onto you especially when you refuse to allow their exploitation. Most of them do not invest time in building a solid financial base for their lives. Instead, they become ‘love-preneurs’ of sorts whereby they date stable people aiming at their money. So when you read through their tricks and you refuse to give them money suddenly they call you materialistic and money minded, the very things they are themselves.
Solution? Do not allow their shenanigans to get into you. The moment someone starts borrowing money from you when you’re just getting to know each other, cut them off. Or if they dodge any situation where they may need to spend and they seem focused on what they can get from you.
(©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)
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