Reasons Many Virgin Brides Experience Painful Sex in Marriage
They expect to have painful sex and you will indeed have what you desire. “As he thinker in his heart, so is he”. Your imagination is very powerful, if you believe you will have painful sex, you will.
They want their husbands to see them as virtuous, very proper and inexperienced and conditioned their body to experience pain.
They have very little or no emotional connection with their husbands. EMOTIONAL connection itself is an all time sex booster in marriage. Never marry someone you have no chemistry for, your sex life is the first to suffer.
They have zero knowledge on sex, understanding of their PP and how it works. They have not studied reproduction and sexuality. They think it is a dirty thing to have the knowledge about sex. They forget sex is sacred and a gift from God. God gave us sex to enjoy. It is for our own good.
They did not discuss sex in courtship so as to prepare for a blissful sex life in marriage.
They do not know that first time sex does not have to be so painful and there are practical steps to take to enjoy pain free, sweet, beautiful sex in marriage.
Don’t go into marriage with ignorance when you are a virgin. You should be knowledgeable about your sexuality, your anatomy and physiology. Ignorance is no defense. You must understand science. Study books and consult the old, wise and experienced God fearing men and women. Stop being naive and timid. Talk and ask. Open your heart and your mouth.
Your marriage can be different. Your sex life can be sweet as a virgin! Read, Sex…sweet Sex! Before you get married. Read passionate Love Making for New Beginners before going to the altar.
Be informed so your sex life won’t be deformed!
May the good Lord grant you understanding.
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