Before You Become a Husband do This
You have no business looking for a wife brother if you lack this qualities:
1. SOUND VISION
You know exactly where you are going and how to go there. If you don’t know where you are going, how will any one help you reach your destination. You are the leader, she follows your lead. If you are blind and can’t see road, you will end up a failure; marital crises is the end result. Get good, sound vision for your life!
2. YOU HAVE A GOOD JOB/BUSINESS
It is your responsibility to work hard and get paid for your services. Stop using the Nigerian economy as an excuse for poor take home. If the job is not paying well, look for another one. If you can’t get, pray. If you still don’t get, create products and services that will bring in extra money. Some men are just mentally, physically lazy and won’t do anything extra to make more money. Most youths today are looking for white collar jobs and if they don’t get, fold their arms and wait for a woman to come and rescue them! You are not serious brother! Not all who ride Maruwa are illiterates! Some okada riders are B.Sc holders. They will rather work with their two hands than kill or steal pants for money rituals. The God who see your faithfulness, prayer and hard work will surely bless and elevate you! I heard the story of a graduate who worked as a gate man for a company because there was no job. He was very faithful and hardworking till his boss called him and asked for his qualifications, the man was flabbergasted and employed him right away, in no time, he became a manager in the company. What if he chose to sleep at home because there was no job?
3. YOU ARE WISE
You talk with wisdom and act in wisdom. It is wisdom to fear the Lord “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom…”
4. YOU HAVE PATIENCE
It takes a patient man to live with a woman. Being a woman is complex. I takes God to have easy womanhood. Every virtuous woman is made by God and her husband. Your patience will turn her from a ferocious lion to a gentle lamb!
5. YOU UNDERSTAND AND CAN MEET THE NEEDS OF A WOMAN
A woman needs plenty affection, honest communication, financial provision, your faithfulness and commitment to the family, plenty love and care to be happy and fulfilled in marriage, can you meet these needs?
6. YOU CAN GIVE HER MIND BLOWING ORGASM
Sex is serious business in marriage. Many women run from sex in marriage because the man just don’t know how to do it. Sex is more than “remove your pants, spread your laps”, go in, dance shaku shaku, rotate and get out, If you can make her enjoy sex and scream your name in bed, you will never have serious marital crises needing divorce! Yes! Satisfying sex can kill many tension and crises in marriage. SEX IS STRICTLY FOR THE MARRIED! This article is for mature men. If you are not mature to handle this post, you are not ready for marriage!
7. YOU HAVE SELF CONTROL
Self discipline is an invaluable quality of great men. The ability to control your erection, appetite, temper and flesh is the hall mark of a great husband and you will inevitably enjoy marital bliss. Lack of self control is one of the leading causes of divorce world wide.
Men, like I always say, you are awesome! Develop this godly qualities and watch women go completely crazy for you.
By John Mining
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