I have around three ladies, I want to settle with one What Should I Do- Benjamin Zulu Advises
Hello Benjamin I have around three ladies ..I want to settle with one..what can I do to distinguish the best ..?? Your respective ages. I’m 31. Two of them are around 26, one is 29 I guess.
Have you been intimate with any of them.
Yes, all.
Your question is too blank and it shows you neither know what you’re looking for yourself nor the kind of women you’re currently dealing with.
Let me ask you one question: if you had not slept with any of these women, would you be here asking this question? No, because your eyes wouldn’t be blinded by their thighs.
You can’t learn a woman’s character when you’re sexually involved with her. Emotions brought by sex obscure reasoning.
You’re doing it out of greed and selfishness but it will cost you in the long run.
You’ve already messed up with those women. If you want to marry right you must pause everything and step back. First, decide where you’re going with your life. From that decision deduce the qualities the woman who will be helping you in that mission must have. Now look for a woman who you both find physically attractive and has those qualities.
For example, you may want to build a large business network and to do charity on large scale. From that you know your woman must have the capacity to manage large amounts of money without getting too excited, and she must have a heart for the needy, or the social group you want to help.
You pick a soulmate with the thing between your ears, not the one between your legs! You never attend interviews when drunk, so why are you getting drunk with sex during such a life changing interview? Both in hunting and in dating accuracy requires clarity.
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