What should You do If You are Tied to the Wrong Person
There’s this tendency among some women to tie themselves up with the wrong man just beacuse they’ve gotten one child with him.
She says she doesn’t want to ‘mix blood’ by getting children with different fathers and so she sticks with him at least to get all her children with him.
This becomes the foundation for a very incompatible marriage or tumultuous relationship but the surprising part is she still runs around trying to ‘fix the issues between them,’ when the foundation of the union was never character or compatibility but one careless pregnancy followed by a need to match the genes of the children. Oh, and to avoid ridicule by society that she got kids with different fathers. And for that she would rather subject herself to a dead marriage and expose her children to bad role modelling as long as she can say they’re of the same dad.
The problem here is never the man or the society, but her own self defeated reasoning and her addiction to an image of being correct. As for you better to be more committed to your own peace and freedom rather than to societal notions of correctness. Personal freedom can be costly sometimes because it means defying what society expects you to, but once you taste the liberty of living as you please you’ll see why it’s priceless.
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