When a person loves you- Benjamin Zulu
When a person loves you, they learn you. And that’s how you know. It can not be that every time you talk, they steer the conversation to some money they need, or they continually make the conversation sexual. It means they’re in your life for the money or sex.
If you have to repeat to them something about a time and again, they’re just not interested in knowing you. When a person’s motives are selfish, they feel insulted when they have to learn you on a personal level. They want the relationship to remain on a transactional level because that’s where they’re benefiting.
If they seem to harbour very strange notions about who you are and what you’re capable of, it’s another proof that they don’t pay attention to you. When a person is in love, they listen to you so well that after a while, they can accurately represent you in most situations and even speak on your behalf.
You can not have someone saying they love you, and yet they keep accusing you of things you can never imagine doing.
Your goal is to marry someone who sees your soul so that you don’t spend a lifetime trying to show them who you truly are.
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